Love isn’t supposed to feel like an anxiety attack in disguise. That all-consuming, make-you-sick passion? That’s not romance—that’s your nervous system throwing up red flags. But society’s been feeding us the lie that love should be overwhelming, messy, and borderline psychotic. Spoiler alert: it shouldn’t. Real love is steady, secure, and doesn’t leave you questioning your worth. If your relationship feels like emotional whiplash, you might be addicted to the chaos. Let’s break down why butterflies are actually a trauma response—not a love story.

At first, they were perfect—thoughtful, affectionate, and kind. Then, without warning, they became cold, manipulative, or even cruel. How does this happen? This article explores the psychology behind sudden personality shifts, from narcissistic abuse cycles to hidden psychological struggles.

Just because you get along with someone doesn’t mean you truly feel safe with them. The difference between comfort and connection can make or break a relationship—whether it’s love, friendship, or something in between. If you’re constantly performing instead of existing, is that really closeness? Or just coexisting?

Love is a drug, and your brain is the dealer. This Valentine’s Day, we're exposing the brutal psychology of love addiction—why your brain treats romance like a high, why heartbreak physically hurts, and why we keep chasing the wrong people. Science-backed, brutally honest, and laced with some well-earned cursing, this blog is your guide to breaking the cycle. Ready to detox from love?

Valentine’s Day is here, and with it comes the inevitable spiral of nostalgia, Instagram-worthy romance, and maybe even the urge to text that one ex (don’t do it). But what if the love we crave isn’t even the love that’s good for us? In this post, we’re breaking down the difference between fantasy love—the kind that’s all-consuming, chaotic, and intoxicating—and real love, the kind that actually lasts. Spoiler: If you’re constantly questioning your worth, it’s not love. Let’s redefine what we deserve. 💖

From dopamine highs to heartbreak lows, Valentine’s Day isn’t just about love—it’s science, psychology, and maybe even a little deception. Let’s unravel the truth about modern romance.